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My experience of jealousy is that it is a fear of loss in some way, as you described. The question is when do you need to sit down and talk yourself through it to realize that the relationship is solid and what tips do you have for recognizing when it is time to talk to your partners? At some point I don’t want to have a relationship where all I do is talk about relationships. LOL. Learning to let go and “let it be” or some version of trusting it to work out and be what it is, is another side. Living in grey space is uncomfortable but also healthy sometimes. It can make us more resilient and healthily independent while continuing to be connected and dedicated to the relationship(s).

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